Switches: do you lean more towards domming or subbing?

[Strapon Sasha]

Why?

 

[Foxy&Sir]

Mainly it is out of love for Sir. It is me giving myself totally to him to do as he wants.

 

[sir strangely normal]

I'm not really into BDSM in the strict sense of the word, but in terms of let's call it the general power dynamic I recognize that from my earliest sexual experiences onwards I've always had a need to be more dominant. In fact a woman coming onto me too assertively or aggressively can turn me off in an instant. But so far as acting out I can play the submissive for "fun".

The why...I don't understand the psychology really but I just feel wired that way.

 

[Deleted member 1203]

I have control and dominate my everyday life, behind closed doors I don't want to, the need to let go wins out most of the time in this area. There is only one Mr who knows just how much.

 

[used2bgood]

It is just a wonderful change to the plain old vanilla sex to be a sub .... and I enjoy the organs being abused ..

 

[BoyToy69]

I've only known and experienced being a sub since my 20's. There's just something about giving up control and letting my mind and body go into another dimension. My wife especially, she gets lost at times and it takes lots of cuddles and whispering to give her the security to come out of it. When I met my wife we found out that we're both subs. So we just had to start from scratch and learn the part of a dom. We both can switch for each other now, but we're both true subs deep down.

 

[mistermessiah]

i want to say im more of a switch that bounces back and forth from sub and dom

 

[ZeusNotApollo]

Jeez, never really thought of it but as we got older we came to an agreement that the one who initiated the intimacy was the one who had to be on top. now that I think about it I’ve been on top a lot more often then her.

 

[Deleted member 58]

I can honestly say that we're both about 50/50. We both enjoy the role reversal that comes by definition with pegging.