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What women really want

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What women really want

Since the 60’s, women have had the freedom in Western countries to be as free sexually as they wanted to. Religious dogmas did not have any effect on liberated women, and contraceptives and abortion made the consequences of sexual freedom almost insignificant. But over the decades women have come to understand that pleasure is not as much associated with the male body as it is with the female body. They have discovered that lesbian porn is what rocks their boat, and one night stands with an attractive bisexual woman, is the pinnacle of their sexual experiences. Thousands upon thousand of straight women declare their undying desire for sexy female lesbians on tiktok, often with the expression: «I’m sorry, mammy». Married women are considering leaving their husbands, or choosing a female partner if the marriage ends.

On online forums women are often proudly telling men that women are better kissers, that woman are better in bed. Even that their best sexual experience was that one time they had sex with another woman. Men don’t to seem care much about these things. The male brain is hard-wired to think that women are heterosexual, and if they don’t behave heterosexually, they are just complicated, and it’s not possible to understand women for a man. When guys see two straight girls kiss, and these girls seem to be so into each other, seemingly much more than when they are kissing their boyfriends, guys just shrug their shoulders, and think they are doing it to excite them.
When guys approach these kissing girls, and get a cold shoulder and an angry look, they don’t think that it invalidates their assumption, but instead gets another beer and tries to hit on some other girls.

The male tunnel-vision when it comes to women is quite necessary for their ability to keep going and approaching women endlessly to meet that one in twenty or more that will say yes to him. The quite handsome guys that got rejected by 10 women at the local nightclub, did not notice that the quite sexy bisexual woman got the first sexy straight girl she approached, and that the straight girl’s friend, made a pass at a lesbian woman, but got rejected, because lesbian women know that straight girls are only after one thing: sex [oh, the irony].

It seems there are not many studies that really dive into the depths of female sexuality. When scientists wanted to know if women also look at women’s breasts, i.e. objectify women, they found that women look just as much at women’s breasts as men do. But it does not end there. When shows different videos of attractive men and then attractive women, one found that women were much more aroused by the women than by the men. Then one could wonder if this translates into real physical experiences, but that is where the scientific research community fails by not putting this to the test. At a college it was tested if women would say yes to attractive men asking if they wanted sex that evening, and if men would say yes to sex with attractive women. The results showed that 75% of men say yes, and 0% of women said yes. So the hypothesis that both men and women are heterosexual, was with this experiment proven to be false. So did the researchers then create a new hypothesis: «Men are heterosexual and women are homosexual» and use attractive women to ask women if they wanted sex that night? No, they did not. It is almost impossible to find serious research that tries to dispel the myth of female heterosexuality. One has to venture into YouTube prank-videos to get an indication of the real female sexual orientation. There one can see girls asking random girls on campus for dates, and all of them saying «yes», even if they first expressed they were heterosexual. And one can see videos there of girls kissing random girls on the street, and the girls enjoying it tremendously, even right in front of their boyfriends.

It would be wonderful if real scientists started asking the tough questions, and doing research that would redefine and destroy the old ideas and concepts of female sexual orientation. Ask any bisexual woman if there are are straight girls out there, and she would say with smile that there are almost no heterosexual girls out there. Lesbians will tell you that it is much easier to get a straight girl to bed than another lesbian. Think of all the men that sacrifice time, money, blood sweat and tears just to get lucky once in a blue moon, but most women can just pick up any babe they want, any day of the week.

The late Norah Vincent was a lesbian woman that in 2006 decided to test if life really was easier for men than for women. She was from nature’s side somewhat male looking, but changed her appearance so much that people did not doubt she was a man. During a period of more than one year, she amongst other things went on dates with 30 women. In an interview, she explains how she barely had any good experiences dating women as a man. But she reveals that she often told the women she was dating that she in fact was a woman. After initially getting angry because of the deceit, many of the women then wanted to have sex with her...

Another matter is how much women enjoy being with men sexually. There are endless articles in newspapers and magazines about how men can make women enjoy sex more. This is based on the fact that only 30% of women get orgasm every time they have sex with men, but most men get orgasm every time they have sex with women. On top of that, around 80% of women reveal they have faked orgasm with men one or more times in their life. These facts are like canon shots towards the bow of the vessel called female heterosexuality, when one takes into consideration that 86% of women that have sex with women get orgasm each time. A common argument here is that female on female sex is mostly clitoral stimulation and not regular intercourse. However, data shows that when asked only 50% of women that received oral sex from men reached orgasm last time it was performed. «Women know women better» is then the common explanation or perhaps hetero-biased diversion, to this phenomenon. It is easy to forget that women also have a profound effect on men, the opposite sex, so they seem to also «know men better» if sexual orientation and arousal suddenly is about some kind of special knowledge and skill. To take it even further, would women really want the experienced grandmother to go down on them, or the young inexperienced bi-curious girl with the perfect body and million dollar smile...

When couples are looking for a threesome, it seems like an overwhelming majority of them are looking for a woman in bed. According to a bisexual woman in the British reality-show «Open House», it is very common for women in threesomes not to allow they boyfriend to have sex with the other girl, while enjoying herself fully. Have women been like men all through the centuries of male oppression? Have their desire for extramarital sex with women been just as strong as men’s desire to have sex with other women?
Now that women are free to choose, it is looking more and more like women desire women just as much as men, and they are simply not able to get enough of this sensual, luxurious delight.

Moreover, when that have one-night stands with other women, seem to have no regrets at all. When asked about these things, women often just focus on how amazing it is, how women understand each other, and the passion that is often much more than they’ve experienced with any man.
Yoni massage by women, for women, is also gaining popularity, and women are finally able to reach orgasm, time and time again from the sensual touch of another woman.
Women might still prefer men for relationships, but many women will say they feel much closer to other women than to men. So perhaps men are becoming obsolete in the eyes of women, perhaps not.

Time will tell.
 
Many of the lady partners I have had like romance . Its not all about buying flowers , but complementing ,placing you partner first .making them feel special and attending to their needs .
 
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I am not convinced that this study Is totally true!
I just will never understand "Studies of people "
In all reality....Who really cares!
Why are they spending money on stupid things like this instead of putting it somewhere to help!
 
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This woman wants 2 things...
A nice guy who accepts me for who I am,
And to never meet another man who thinks he can tell women what they want.

Where are your references, besides TikTok, YouTube, reality television, magazine articles about some unreferenced study, anecdotes, and a really crap meta analysis? You've gotten called out for this already on the other forums where you've posted this essay, as well as stating you think it's OK to make generalizations about straight women, including "straight women are heterosexually monogamous, and homosexually polygamous."

As for the men on this forum, I wouldn't put any more stock in his theory that "men are becoming obsolete in the eyes of women" than his pronouncements about what women want.
 
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TruthSeeker commented
It's important for women that men do not realize that the reason they most of the time get rejected by women, is because women are much less heterosexual than they are homosexual. If more men discover this fact, they might take it more easy with making passes at women, thus giving women less men to choose from.
I'm not the one that made women homosexuals, I'm just one of few people that is actually documenting it.
I would also challenge anyone that does not believe straight women are homosexuals, to ask those that have a lot of sex with women, especially bisexual women, but also lesbians that tend to express uneasiness about straight women hitting on them.
Here is an article by a lesbian that entertained 'straight' women at a Skirt-club. A place where women go to have sex with women while their boyfriends have to stay at home, and entrance fee is $180. So women don't mind indirectly paying for sex, as long as it is with another woman.
I can not be responsible for how people react on forums when they read new and unsettling information.


Here are studies and articles writing about studies that show most women are homosexual.
The article in NY-times interviews Meredith Chivers, psychology professor at Queen's University.
She explains that studies have shown that women get more aroused looking at women, compared to looking at men.





 
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You haven't documented anything. More anecdotes and articles from places like Scary Mommy and Huff Post without references aren't impressive.

"It's important for women that men do not realize that the reason they most of the time get rejected by women, is because women are much less heterosexual than they are homosexual. If more men discover this fact, they might take it more easy with making passes at women, thus giving women less men to choose from." Telling men that they are getting rejected because women are homosexuals is nothing more than an excuse out of the incel playbook as to why they can't get laid.

And BTW, an abortion isn't insignificant to any woman.
 
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Here is an article that references a study done by psychology professor Meredith Chivers. She found out that women are not turned on by naked attractive men, but are quickly turned on by naked attractive women. If that is not homosexual, I don't know what is.
I'm not really showing these facts to impress people.

It is also very common that online magazines write about scientific studies. People tend to get their information from mainstream media outlets and not directly from the scientific study, which sometimes needs a bit of decoding for most people.
Like this unprocessed study that I have linked to before:
Women also probably know that they turn their heads more often after sexy women than after attractive men, at least what I have been able to observe. Women also look at breasts just as much as men do, so no need for women to feel morally superior to men, they are just as hungry for female bodies as men are:
Another interesting fact about female sexuality, is the first 7 favourite porn actors/actresses for women are all women, according to Pornhub.
But women want to give the impression that they are much more heterosexual than they really are. Like was shown in a study, where women rated their sexual arousal higher than it actually was when watching straight porn, and rated it much lower that it was when watching lesbian porn.
Many women I chat with, have no problem admitting they desire women.
Another reason for women to have more sex with women, which is an increasing trend, is that they don't have to worry about abortion at all and they get orgasm much more frequently from women than from men. In fact, it takes a woman 14 minutes to reach orgasm with a man, 9 minutes by herself, and 2 minutes with another woman. Just watch any erotic movie, or ask bisexual women how easy it is to get women off. One might wonder if in a sexual situation, straight women are more homosexual than straight men, since most straight men last more than 2 minutes...
 
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Candela
Candela commented
Well you got the 2 minutes right :)
 
Good lord, did anyone actually read all the crap this guy wrote? I didn't. What I did read sounded like justification for his inadequacies.
 
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Kevin and Nina
Kevin and Nina commented
In his mind, the reason he can’t get laid isn’t due to his inadequacies, but women being so occupied with other women, they don’t have time or energy for him.
I would love to hear his “game” when trying to pick up a woman in public.
 
I have often wandered do women consider what the cocks are like of the men that are around them whether they are friends or strangers.
 
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Kevin and Nina
Kevin and Nina commented
Only when I’m wondering what he’s overcompensating for.
 
Sweet Cheeks
Sweet Cheeks commented
Now I do when I’m in work and think what they look like underneath
 
I have often wandered do women consider what the cocks are like of the men that are around them whether they are friends or strangers.
I do!

If I see a fine man, I'll be thinking of his cock. I'm on my way to work, I see a fine man, I'll be creeping about his balls, too. Even fantasizing cupping them in my hands. Licking them, sucking left and right.

I can almost feel the texture.

I'll be wishing his cock was hard and I'll definitely be discreetly inspecting for a bulge.

I'll wonder how his cock would feel when I'd sit on it. And I may be caught imagining taking my clit to his mouth, hovering it over his face while I suck his cock.

I'll slightly separate my teeth, so that my cheeks are pulled a bit inwards, to feel a bit of that sensation of sucking hard on a good cock.

I'll at some point bring my lips in and discreetly lick them, calming an urge to explore a willing shaft.

Then my eyes will probably catch a glimpse of another fine man and may drift in the thought of them fucking me ass and mouth.

It's hard being a woman around here. So many fine men.
 
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thatguyfromthatplace
thatguyfromthatplace commented
Hey at least women can get wet without it being noticeable! Definitely not the same for a guy and getting hard 🤣
 
LaLaLand
LaLaLand commented
Takes me back to school getting called up to the chalkboard to solve a problem. Best solution....stand it straight up in pants. My problem was it extended beyond my waistband
 
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One night stand was shit nothing like what you said at all @Kevin and Nina sports bra I wear is by USA pro really good
 
CaptainClags
CaptainClags commented
Kevin and Nina
Kevin and Nina commented
Most guys think any is plenty. They might prefer Dolly Parton’s boobs over Keira Knightly’s, but they are perfectly happy seeing Ms. Knightly’s.
 
CaptainClags
CaptainClags commented
Nina:
the reason they most of the time get rejected by women, is because women are much less heterosexual than they are homosexual.
No, you’re not being rejected because she’s secretly a lesbian. That’s typical toxic mentality. You got rejected because most women are more picky about who they have sex with. I’ve heard of guys sticking their dick in a knot hole, or masturbating to a rock or cloud formation
thus giving women less men to choose from.
Are you saying the reason you can’t get laid is because women have more/better options than you? That sounds very INCEL-ish to me.
That’s like a bad race car driving claiming he’d have a better chance of winning if all the other drivers dropped out.
also lesbians that tend to express uneasiness about straight women hitting on them.
Maybe it’s because they don’t want to be thought of as a novelty or something on someone’s bucket list. They’re humans, not objects
 
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Actually I play football with lot of ladies that are gay u have no idea what the fuk u are talking about I change in the same dressing room as them and the opposite team we are all ladies
 
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Nina;
It’s weird. When a woman is sexually assaulted by a man, society blames it on her. What was she wearing if she wasn’t “asking for it”? How was she acting if she wasn’t “asking for it”? Why was she there if she wasn’t “asking for it”?
But lesbians seem to have pretty strong self control when around other women in various situations.
Maybe the problem isn’t women “asking for it” after all.
 
Kevin and Nina
Kevin and Nina commented
You can go into a locker room packed with lesbians, undress, shower and walk back to your locker without any cat calls or suggestive comments. (Unless it’s happening in male targeted porn. Then it’s nothing but “scissoring” and 69ing)
 
Sweet Cheeks
Sweet Cheeks commented
So true and I can get changed in front of them all change from trackies to my football kit without feeling uneasy
 
Kevin and Nina
Kevin and Nina commented
How do you know the movie Starship Troopers is science fiction? Not because of the space ships. Not because of the laser rifles. Not because of the giant alien bugs.
You know it’s science because the male and female Marines all shower together and the men are totally cool about it.
 
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You hear ads, especially catering to "What every woman wants." Like "A Diamond lasts forever," or "Every kiss begins with K." All that bullshit trying to sell jewelry. I often wonder if a Diamond lasts forever, why do you ever have to buy another gift for life??
You know what ads you never see or hear..."What every guy wants." Mostly because it’s against the law. If I was ever asked I’d reply " A day of complete silence and then a threesome with your hot sister!"
 
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Those jewelry ads are targeting men, not women.
There is nothing on earth all women want or need, anymore than there is one thing all men want or need.
 
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Ladies, if you really want to piss off your man, do not give him the silent treatment. Instead, Google the most important game of the season, sit next to him during that game and just ask as many fucking questions as you can. Like, "I don’t understand...who’s that guy in the striped shirt?"
 
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There is no answer to this. Women can not be grouped as a whole. Neither can men.
One woman may want someone to love and protect them and the next one may want a guy with money and the perfect body.
The same can be said for men.
I'd like to think that people want love in their lives but good luck finding them.
 
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