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I’ve (26 f) always been really attracted to my best friend’s older brother (28 m). He used to flirt with me a lot when we were high school kids. He’d tell me how cute I was, stuff like that. We never dated but I always wished we had. At the time my friend would say she wanted me to date her brother.
Well he was in the Navy and lived in California for a while but he moved back here to Ohio earlier this year. He started coming around occasionally when his sister has get togethers. He’s gotten hotter since I last saw him.
I’ve always been that girl who people would say “Hey you’re cute for a chubby girl.” Stuff like that. I struggled with my weight for years but have really worked hard on it and over the last six months and I’ve slimmed down a lot. I’m still curvy but I’ve been told I’m thick in all the right places.
The reason I lost weight was because of a breakup and I needed the confidence booster. My ex used to take mean little jabs at me when he’d get mad. After we broke up I figured I’d show him what he lost out on.
At one of my friend’s het together’s this summer I was commiserating with her about my bad luck dating since my breakup. I told her I should just find myself a friend with benefits. Well maybe she said something to her brother because I was chatting with him later that night and he said he heard I was looking for a FWB and he offered his services. We both laughed about it but I was really pleasantly surprised by the offer.
I wanted to take him up on it but I said something to my friend first. All she said was the were both adults and she didn’t care what we did, but she didn’t want any details from either of us. So when I was getting ready to leave I told him he should walk me to my car. We ended up having a really hot make out session on my car.
Then he followed me over to my place and we hooked up that night. After we that we’ve been hooking up pretty regularly since. Pretty much every weekend and even during the week sometimes.
In the last month or so he and I have even started hanging out more as friends too. And that’s my problem. Because now I’ve come to realize that not only is he hot. Not only do we have great sex, he’s a really great guy. He’s funny and thoughtful and he makes me feel so happy. Just being with him makes me happy.
Like yesterday we hung out at his place and watched a football game together and I was on my period and wasn’t feeling all that great so I didn’t want to mess around. So we cuddled on his sofa and watched football and he played with my hair and cracked his stupid dad jokes to try and make me feel better.
I want to tell him that I think he’s the greatest guy and I want us to be together as more than just friends with benefits. I think he might feel the same way but he might be nervous to say something. When we started all this I told him pretty strongly that I had no interest in a relationship right now. But I didn’t count on catching feelings for him like this.
Well he was in the Navy and lived in California for a while but he moved back here to Ohio earlier this year. He started coming around occasionally when his sister has get togethers. He’s gotten hotter since I last saw him.
I’ve always been that girl who people would say “Hey you’re cute for a chubby girl.” Stuff like that. I struggled with my weight for years but have really worked hard on it and over the last six months and I’ve slimmed down a lot. I’m still curvy but I’ve been told I’m thick in all the right places.
The reason I lost weight was because of a breakup and I needed the confidence booster. My ex used to take mean little jabs at me when he’d get mad. After we broke up I figured I’d show him what he lost out on.
At one of my friend’s het together’s this summer I was commiserating with her about my bad luck dating since my breakup. I told her I should just find myself a friend with benefits. Well maybe she said something to her brother because I was chatting with him later that night and he said he heard I was looking for a FWB and he offered his services. We both laughed about it but I was really pleasantly surprised by the offer.
I wanted to take him up on it but I said something to my friend first. All she said was the were both adults and she didn’t care what we did, but she didn’t want any details from either of us. So when I was getting ready to leave I told him he should walk me to my car. We ended up having a really hot make out session on my car.
Then he followed me over to my place and we hooked up that night. After we that we’ve been hooking up pretty regularly since. Pretty much every weekend and even during the week sometimes.
In the last month or so he and I have even started hanging out more as friends too. And that’s my problem. Because now I’ve come to realize that not only is he hot. Not only do we have great sex, he’s a really great guy. He’s funny and thoughtful and he makes me feel so happy. Just being with him makes me happy.
Like yesterday we hung out at his place and watched a football game together and I was on my period and wasn’t feeling all that great so I didn’t want to mess around. So we cuddled on his sofa and watched football and he played with my hair and cracked his stupid dad jokes to try and make me feel better.
I want to tell him that I think he’s the greatest guy and I want us to be together as more than just friends with benefits. I think he might feel the same way but he might be nervous to say something. When we started all this I told him pretty strongly that I had no interest in a relationship right now. But I didn’t count on catching feelings for him like this.
I think you are also in the wonderful position where you went into this not looking for a relationship so there’s no pressure and no expectations. The relationship and feelings grew unexpectedly and it seems it’s the same for both of you. I am sure you are going to have good news to share after you do talk and I wish you lots of happiness.