Do you prefer to have sex with the lights on, or in darkness?

[Deleted member 4964]

Years ago, I finally had an opportunity to have sex with a woman I had been deeply attracted to (dare I say in love with) for a long time. After a drunken night partying, I took her home, and to my utter amazement, she took me to bed. But she insisted the lights remain off. It was pitch dark and I never saw her naked even though I longed to. Personally, I prefer the lights to be on because I am definitely stimulated visually as well as through the other senses. We don’t have to be under a spotlight, but I want to be able to see something.

 

[Focker]

I have to agree with HornyHubby above me. Men are visual creatures, we are easily stimulated by visual cues, as well as touch, scent/aroma, and emotions. Been married for over 30 years and I can count the times we had sex in darkness on one hand, lmao. We both much prefer to SEE what's going on.

 

[Sweet Cheeks]

On like the other month so we can see everything @No Strings

 

[ChazzL]

I like to have one or two candles lit. The soft light helps set the mood.