Cuckolding and Cuckold Porn

[Rich6734]

I am curious if anyone else feels this way about it - or at least can understand where I am coming from with it. It's a bit confusing to me, which is why I am making this post.

The thing I absolutely cannot tolerate in a relationship is infidelity or cheating. The thought of any girl I have ever been in a relationship with having sex with another man behind my back is bone crushing to me. I always make it clear to any girl before we commit to each other. "The one major thing I ask is that you do not fuck me over. I do not want to feel that hurt." It's not something I obsess or worry over in the midst of a relationship. However, it is the thing that would absolutely hurt me most. I would never DREAM of sharing my girl, swinging, any of that. It's not even a thought in my mind. Even if I'm getting other action? Hell no.

But something with cuckold porn turns me on. It goes both ways, I'll add. I do like watching it through the eyes of the bull sometimes. However, sometimes... the cuckold's humiliating situation turns me on and I imagine myself in his shoes. The sheer pain that I imagine feeling in that moment comes to me just a little and it's embarrassing to admit. It turns me very on. I have ZERO... and I mean ZERO clue why. At times, I've even imagined myself in that situation with ex's while masturbating and it gets me hard.

I would not dream of being into that in real life. So, I am having trouble figuring out why (sometimes) putting myself in those shoes turns me on. The only thing I can think of is that it's similar to watching a horror movie. The thrill you get from watching such horrible things take place. Except in sexual form. Like, my most dreaded relationship fear coming true. So, it gives me a weird rush?

Is that a thing? Anyway, was just curious if anyone else could at least understand where I am coming from. LOATHING the idea, but getting a weird kinky turn on from it.

 

[Deleted member 424]

Sexual fantasy in the form of entertainment/masturbation doesn't always reflect what we will physically do in real life. Usually breaking the taboo is the exciting part for the person, not the actual act. But have fun, and just do legal and safe stuff, right?

 

[goander]

Many sexual fantasies and masturbation objects are not things that will ever likely happen to you and that's OK. That is for your masturbation fantasies.

 

[Rich6734]

Many sexual fantasies and masturbation objects are not things that will ever likely happen to you and that's OK. That is for your masturbation fantasies.

Sure. I totally get that. However, typically, they are things you are "fantasizing" about happening because you are VERY into it. Most fantasies we have - we would be over the moon about if they did come true for us. This is something that would be just terrible and I would never want it to happen in a million years. It honestly disgusts me just thinking about it. Makes me think there's something psychologically off with me in this department. lol

 

[Thomas Crown]

Some guys like watching their ladies take a cock from another man, especially a very large one. Some men feel deficient in some area. Some are bi and want to join in on the sex. Some men enjoy being humiliated. Nothing hotter than MFM. Some of the best vids are in the cuck genre.

 

[Woodster]

I have a similar syndrome. Don’t see myself ever sharing my wife but the idea of such things turns me on. Hard to explain but a fun kink to explore. I have a few in my world of sexual fantasies and they all serve me well. No shame.

 

[Hugefan]

I feel the same, or similar. The humiliation aspect does nothing for me. I think for me at least, the notion of a married woman liking and wanting sex so much that she (and her husband) are ok with letting other guys (or multiple guys) fuck her is a huge turn on.

 

[Nailz]

We've taken part in couples' cuckolding fantasies totally inadvertently - it's a hazard of having a really hung bf
I've never been able to understand what the husbands/bfs get out of it Cuckolding and sph (the two are often intertwined) just remain a mystery to me

 

[used2bgood]

Our situation was not for the cuckolding but for the mutual sexual satisfaction of the raw sex. My wife was more of a 'hot wife' than me being a cuckold. I very much enjoyed seeing and hearing of her sexual encounters and we both learned a LOT from the experiences. I do not consider myself a gay but I do enjoy the human form in all of their glory, so the hot wifing was very pleasurable for me as well as her. I live for the creampie and she was kind enough to provide a plenty of them. I also derived a lot of satisifaction of watching her having the best sexual experiences of her (our) lives. We had a very open relationship the bonded us for our entire lives...
This type of sexual relatoship is not for everyone and takes a LOT of trust on both partners .....

 

[Biodome13]

I love cuckold porn and my wife cuckolds me. She has sex with other men fairly frequently. We work opposite shifts and I want her to be sexually fulfilled. She used to do it when I wasn’t home because she thought she was respecting our marriage. One day I told her that I thought it would be hot for me to come home from work and walk into her having sex. She said, “I’d be up for that. You gonna be ok with it?” I said, “Honestly, I don’t know. I could be ok or I could be furious. Won’t know till it happens.” For me, I was more turned on than I ever had been. It was watching porn, but live. Then a few days later she asked if she could spice things up. I asked how. She said with some talk. I said ok. She was having sex with her boyfriend and I walked in. I heard him say, “Oh shit. Your husbands home.” My wife said, “Fuck him and his little dick.” I walked in and she said, “Hey honey. Sit your ass down and watch a real dick please me.” And after they were done she said, “Now come over and clean my pussy.”

 

[Underdog]

The topic of fantasies that only exist as fantasies is a hot button onefor me today!

I ALMOST did this once .... I was much younger & alcohol & cannabis were involved. None the less I AGREED to let my best friend fuck my then girlfriend ...... it was HER idea ..... & then let him watch me clean up his creampie with my tongue!!!

My friend passed out before we could even propose the idea ..... 1 less beer or 1 less joint ..... & this might have actually happened!

Now I have no idea IF I would have regretted it in the morning

 

[USABarry]

I look at porn of this type that is videoed by the husband. Some, if not most, of the fucking is encouraged by husband. Sometimes husband joins in or gets sloppy seconds. Most of the time not. But what I notice is the wife becoming totally immersed in the moment as the bull is taking her pussy as his own. The expressions on wives faces as the bulls cock slides into her tells me she is really into it. The way she holds her bull in her arms, caresses his back, moans or talks about how he is fucking her indicates total pleasure. I really believe the wife enjoys cuckolding more than the cuckold himself.
That's where the turn on is for me. I'm more on the side of the bull as my personality is such I couldn't take the humiliation that comes with it. Or being left out of the action. I could do a MFM threesome easily. Accept my spouse having a lover or boyfriend. But don't humiliate or tease me about it. Nope, I'm in the place of the bull. I've been there with a fuck buddy whose husband knew we fucked and didn't interfere. Never met him and don't know if they were playing the cuckold fetish. But while watching a video I see myself pushing my cock into the wife whether husband is present or not.

 

[TexasJack]

I think there can be any number of reasons for this fantasy although the humiliation pleasure is not within my grasp.

In some cases it could be that porn is so prevalent and consumed these days we need the kink to be pushed further and further out to get the same release. We are chasing a sexual dragon that will always be a little faster than us.

Many guys also tend to put their wife, the mother of their children on a pedestal and could never risk the rejection when asking her to fulfill fantasies so we imagine her in complete release taking any and all sexual risks just for pleasure.

Maybe that’s where the humiliation comes in. Maybe it the man’s own contempt for himself because he can’t be assertive enough to take what he wants so he wants his wife to chastise him while she finds a man that will. It may go back to his relationship with his own mother(not sexually speaking) as to how she may have corrected him if he didn’t perform whatever task it was she asked.

Hell, I don’t really have a clue. There are probably one hundred different sources and then all the cuck porn helps to nurture it.

 

[Procrasturbating]

If you’re a reader, pick up Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha. It’s a really fascinating book, that deals with human sexuality, particularly pertaining to multiple partners etc. Lots of theories about sperm competition, porn and does touch on why cuckolding is the the top male fantasy too.

 

[iamjustme65]

No. I have absolutely no desire to watch another man fuck my wife.
None.
At the core of my personality is I am naturally a highly protective male.
And therefore with that is going to come the other part of that personality - territorial.
That does not mean I am jealous. I am not. My wife and I are both blessed to look younger than our age, and her body is pretty damn good for being 58... hell... good for being 48! So she gets looks. And I find that complimentary. She has some tops that show cleavages... I love those tops. And like being in public with her when she is wearing them. "Look at what I get to have you bastards!!"
What..... I .... have. And what you can't have.