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Damage from men's blocked orgasms?

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I wasn't sure if I should put this here or in ask the gentlemen?
My ex used to love to give me ruined orgasms as part of our sex play.
She did it 3 ways
-1 letting go just after the point of no return
-2 squeezing the base of my cock
-3 capping the pee hole
Each yielding a very unsatisfying orgasm/ejaculation.
Lately if I try -2 or -3 I find I leak urine and/or have difficulty urinating for a day or 2.
Maybe its just because I'm getting older but does anyone have any experience with this kind of play???
 
I have blocked mine by #2. Not pleasurable a all.
 
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Wow. I have to say that’s fucked up to the point that I’m physically uncomfortable. Why the hell would she do that to you? Seems just a bit sadistic.
 
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@TexasJack it is a little sadistic but is mostly about power exchange and a little D/s play.
The worst was when she kept sucking or stroking while preventing the ejaculation as in #2 ...... ugghhh
As a side benefit ..... when I was "drained" but still horny & unsatisfied I could fuck her for a long long time ..... much longer than I could usually last which was good for her since it took her a while to climax while screwing.

FWIW there was an urban legend that was allegedly inflicted on prisoners of war during the Vietnam era. This so called pleasure torture involved having 3 naked women orally stimulate [cock, balls & ass] the restrained prisoner while a leather thong was cinched tightly around the base of his cock. He would then be forced to orgasm 3 times as the women changed position with each orgasm. The first orgasm was uncomfortable, the second painful and the third excruciatingly painful with pain that lingered on for days
 
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I hope that doesn't cause any internal damage to you guys!
 
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Underdog
Underdog commented
Thank you @Candela. Its been almost 40 years and everything still works so I'm thinking no permanent damage.
Uncomfortable & frustrating ..... but not harmful. Even the issue I mentioned in the original post is only temporary .... and a recent development.
 
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used2bgood commented
I do not think that there is much chance of permanent damage as an orgasm is just muscle tissue squeezing a bulbus chamber filled with fluid. The most that I would think is that there could be a muscle sprain and at worst a tearing of it, however have never heard of anything like that happening. However, I think that the muscle that restricts the bladder would yield allowing the prostate contents to be pushed back into the bladder under the pressure with possible damage to that muscle that would result in chronic leakage of urine.
 
I've done/had done everything above and agree that it is painful from mild to excruciating. The pain is a body's signal that it is being damaged. I do not recommend this as a torture and certainly cannot see how it could be a pleasure addition to sex! My experiences were with a Dom who also hung me by my balls ONCE only!

Probably not related but I've also developed Prostate cancer ...
 
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Underdog
Underdog commented
Being hung by my balls DOES NOT appeal to me ..... OUCH!!!!!!! That had to hurt for a while. I'm sore just thinking about it.
Kudos to you for trying a PRO DOMME ..... at least I'm assuming it was a pro???
Sorry to hear about the cancer ..... as you said, probably not related
 
Oh no, if your going to build to orgasm and not release, what's the point ?
If your nose is running then it might be time to release. lol
Thar She Blows....:ROFLMAO:
 
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Underdog
Underdog commented
Is that why my nose is running?????? LMAO
Not to be technical but as soon as the pressure is released semen is also released but without a satisfying orgasm ..... "fully resolved" according to the shrinks.
Net result you're still horny but can't climax again until your body has refilled the tank.
I'm not sure which method is the worst or most frustrating????
 
Since I was of an age that I can't mention here, my penis and testicles have been for pleasure. Pain and risk of damage to either would be insane.
I can't understand someone getting a thrill from doing that to someone else.
 
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Prostate cancer has already been mentioned, if it's not related to the ruined orgasms. I would go for a checkup. Better once too often than once not enough.
 
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Once on a quiet day in the office I was masturbating under the desk and did not want to stain the pants so I capped the urethra hole. Nothing came out, but it felt weird and I felt pain afterwards for a couple of days. I do not recommend it!
 
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